If this be madness...
Dr Farid Esack
Published in Women in Action, Phillipines
Shamima Shaikh (37), South Africa's leading Muslim gender equality
activist passed away in the early hours of last Thursday at her home in Mayfair,
Johannesburg when her physical body succumbed to cancer. Shamima left behind her husband,
Naeem Jeenah and two sons, Minhaj (9) and Shir'a (7).
Shamima was a member of the National Executive of the Muslim Youth
Movement and former editor of the progressive Muslim monthly, al-Qalam. More recently, at
a time when other co-religionists were denying women the right to be on air, she served as
chairperson of the Muslim Community Broadcasting Trust, which runs The Voice, a Johannesburg
Muslim community radio station. It was, however, as a gender activist within the Muslim
community that she made her mark. She spearheaded the formation and headed
the Gender Desk
of the Muslim Youth Movement. In this capacity she rapidly became a thorn in the flesh
of conservative Muslim clerics on the now defunct Muslim Personal Law Board who were keen
to develop and implement a set of Shari'ah laws which would entrench gender inequality.
In an event that drew widespread controversy in the Muslim
community, she led a rebellion of Muslim women worshippers at the 23rd Street
Mosque in Fietas in 1993. Throughout the month of Ramadan she and a number of other women
prayed upstairs in the mosque. On the 27th night, the most spiritually
significant one for Muslims, when she arrived, the upstairs was occupied by men and a tent
was set up outside for the use of women. Braving numerous angry offended men with tiny
egos, she led a group of comrades to re-occupy their space. By then she had acquired the
well-deserved description as "that mad Shaikh woman". Yet to friend and foe
Shamima was the epitome of gentleness and politeness.
In the same way that for anyone committed to gender justice a
woman's place cannot be confined to bedrooms and kitchens, she ultimately became
frustrated with being an "upstairs" woman. In a little known move, and
unprecedented in the world of Islam, she and a number of comrades - male and female -
started an "alternative" congregation where gender equality and all its
implications for Islamic thought and practice were the norm.
Shamima first learnt that she had cancer about three years ago.
Nothing changed for her. Her life was full of laughter, courage and the will to change the
world and she merrily continued. "If the last hour strikes and finds you carrying a
sapling to the grove for planting" said the Prophet Muhammad, "go ahead and
plant it". Her hour had struck but her planting continued unabated.
Knowing that her life was rapidly ebbing away she delivered a
lecture in Durban three weeks ago on "Qur'an and Woman". She inspired us and
taught us that there is nothing inevitable in life. She insisted that while death may be
inevitable we are free to shape our responses to it. She chose not to undergo various
forms of chemotherapy and, other than resorting to some traditional and homeopathic
options, she was determined not to return to her Lord kicking and screaming. A poem,
penned by a cousin and posted at the entrance to her bedroom said it all:
What Cancer Cannot Do
Cancer is so limited
It cannot cripple love,
It cannot shatter hope,
It cannot corrode faith,
It cannot destroy peace,
It cannot kill friendship,
It cannot suppress memories,
It cannot silence courage,
It cannot invade the soul,
It cannot steal eternal life,
It cannot conquer the spirit
The day of her death and burial was a day of relentless pushing of
the religio-cultural limits. Shamima's death was testimony to the Qur'anic verse which says:
"Do not say about those who are slain in the path of God that they are dead; nay they
are alive." She requested that a close female friend lead her funeral prayers. (As
part of her obsession with retrieving subversive theological and juristic memories which
accorded women a more just place in the Islamic scheme of things, she had come across a
report that the funeral prayers for Imam Idris bin Shafi', a revered Islamic jurist, was
led by a woman.). Thus it came to pass that for the first time in the last few centuries
a Muslim's funeral service, albeit at her home, was led by a woman.
At another service in the nearby mosque later, her husband led the
prayer despite the presence of a number of theologians and clerics. In what is possibly
unprecedented in the contemporary Islamic world, a large number of women attended the
funeral prayers at the mosque. (And no, they did not go upstairs, nor to an outside tent.)
When her physical remains arrived at her final earthly resting place, in the town where
she was born, Pietersburg, the women were again there to offer the funeral prayers. While
a narrow pathway separated the women mourners (mostly clad in black) from the men, (mostly
clad in white) who surrounded the grave, it was nevertheless an historic occasion.
What a life! What a way of passing on! What a death!
"If this be madness, God", her husband, Na'eem, prayed at
her funeral service, "Give us all the courage to be mad".
Amen.
Dr Farid Esack
Acting CEO
Commission on Gender Equality